|with your newborn ISSUE ONE
An amazing new relationship has
begun and you have many questions.
As parents with a newborn, you
may not have time to read a lot of
parenting books. We would like to
make your life a little bit easier. As you
reach each new stage in your child’s
development, you will want to know
what to expect.
As your baby grows, you will receive your next issue
of “Let’s Grow” which can help to answer any questions you might have!
Let’s Grow will focus
on important information about the
healthy growth and development of
your child and your family.
More in-depth information is available
by calling your local health unit,
resource centre or by accessing the resources on the right side of the page.
Let’s Grow... Together!
Mom & Partner after baby
After your baby is born it is important to
continue to make time for yourself, your family, and friends.
Partners are very important during this time.
Parenting is a team effort. Make time to talk with your partner and spend alone time together to remember why you fell in love. Accept the fact that your life will change. Remember you can’t be everything to everyone.
Set priorities. Make a list. Do what works for you
and your family. Talk with other new parents. Ask
them what works for them. They’ve been there,
It’s important to talk about how you are
feeling. Try saying things like:
“I feel cared for when…”
“I feel frustrated when…”
“I feel happy when…”
“I feel exhausted when…”
It’s okay and normal to be tired. If you are
feeling overwhelmed, talk to
you get the support and help you need.
If you continue to struggle with your moods, see issue 2 for
All babies cry. Some babies cry more than
others. Sometimes they cry because they
are hungry, tired or uncomfortable, but
there may be times that you cannot figure
out what is wrong.
Your job is not to make
baby stop crying, but to offer your comfort.
The most important thing you can do for
your baby is to stay calm. This won’t always
If you feel frustrated, put him in his
crib where he is safe and walk away for a few
minutes until you feel better. Never shake a baby.
His neck is weak
and his head is heavy. Shaking will hurt his
brain and may cause blindness, paralysis,
learning disabilities or even death.
know that your baby is not trying to make
If you think that your
baby might be ill, take
him to see the doctor. Otherwise he is probably
experiencing the Period of P.U.R.P.L.E crying
. This is normal and is not
related to your parenting. Know that this difficult time will pass.
Health & Safety
Never hesitate to call the
doctor if you are worried about your
• baby is under 6 months and has a fever
(temperature above 37.5º C/99.5º F
• baby is jaundiced (his skin or eyes are
yellow in colour)
• baby’s diaper is dry for more than 4 hours
(after day 4)
• baby is very tired and does not wake easily
• baby will not nurse or falls asleep after
starting to feed
• baby vomits forcefully (not “spitting-up”)
• soft spot on the top of baby’s head seems
either sunken or is bulging outward
• there is discharge or odour from baby’s
If you notice any of these symptoms and are concerned, call your family
doctor or telehealth.
All babies who are breastfed or receiving breast milk need a daily
vitamin D supplement of 10 micrograms (400IU)
If you have further questions, you may call our Health Matters
line at (519) 539-9800, ext. 3473, or
TTY: 1-800-755-0394, ext. 3473.
Talk, Play, Teach
Talk: "The Moon is Round"
Babies make all kinds of sounds. Imitate her sounds
and facial expressions. She is already practicing how to
talk. Familiar songs and rhymes will help to calm her.
The moon is round, as round can be,
(Trace a circle with your finger around the baby’s face,
Two eyes, a nose and a mouth,
(Touch under the baby’s eyes and on her mouth.)
(And here’s the smile, of course.)
Play: Different positions
Babies like to be held in different positions. Hold him
on your lap, in your arms and at your shoulders. Feed
and hold him with both your right and left arms.
Variety lets him see the world in different ways.
It also helps him strengthen all of his muscles.
Keep him in his infant seat or
swing for only short periods of time. He needs to be out so he
stretch and move.
Teach: Tell me about your day
She loves to see your face. When you hold,
feed her, look at her and talk to her. It doesn’t matter
what you say. Tell her about your day. Your voice is
interesting and it
soothes her. You can sing too. She
doesn’t mind if you are not on key.
She just loves to
hear your voice and look into your eyes.
Look what I can do
Hearing: When I am about one week of age, I will turn toward you when I hear your comforting
voice. I also like soothing sounds & might startle when I hear loud, sharp noises.
Speaking to me early is already helping me learn to talk.
Touch: I especially love to be held skin-to-skin. I respond to touching, stroking, cuddling, warmth
and gentle movement. I might like more of less of these things depending on my mood. All babies
not the same.
Sucking, swallowing and rooting: I need to suck, not just for food but for comfort. I am
to seek out food, especially when you hold me close. When you stroke my
cheek, you will notice that I turn to that side. This rooting reflex will gradually disappear over time.
Taste & smell:I can recognize my mother’s milk by its smell. I don’t like strong scents
(perfumes, bath products, air fresheners). I may wrinkle up my face, turn away or cry
Grasping: If you place your finger into the palm of my hand, I should hang onto it with
Sight: I can focus within a range of 20cm (8 inches). This is the distance between your
face and mine when I am feeding. I like contrasting colours and patterns.